Selamat Pengantin Baru...Maklong & ayah Long - 21-02-2010

layan jer la gambar yang ado ni.....sebab guna hphone jer......tu la sangat sakit mata tuh.........

with love,

CNY tak kemana pun.....

biasanya setiap tahun kalu raya cina mesti ibu apply cuti kaw2 punya sebab nak balik kg.......tapi sebab minggu ada kenduri maklong, so thn ni tak balik terengganu raya cina.....ibu nak tolong  maklong wat persiapan apa yg patut.......anas tolong menyibuk jer........


so, hr sabtu petang tuh atuk datang ambik anas ngan ibu so cuti tu melepak jer la kat rumah atuk sambil tolong2 wat persiapan ...... ya lah tak kan lah ibu nak ambik cuti balik terengganu pulak......agak kurang ajar namanya gitu.......dulu masa ibu ngan papa kawin dorang yg banyak tolong wat persiapan.......takkan bila giliran org ibu nak lari pulakkan........pengajaran disitu ya anas.....org narbudi kita berbahasa gitu..........


dari hari sabtu sampai hari ni.....ibu ngan anas still lg stay kat rumah atuk/wan.....anas pun tak hantar kat baby sitter...maklong tolong jagakan......boleh la maklong praktis2 ya sebelum dapat baby........

ni gambar2 kitorang curi2 kuar gi parkson nga jj hr isnin tuh.......

with love,

Hadiah tertunggak.......boleh ker??

masa birthday anas hari tuh ibu belum bagi hadiah apa2 pun kat anas.........ibu kan dah berhajat nak belikan anas playskool walk n ride sebab ibu kesian tengok anas cam nak sangat berjalan tapi dia tak boleh jalan lagi.....so hajat kena ditunaikan la........

ibu pernah bagi dia tolak bakul kain.....pastu dia jatuh tergolek pastu apa lagi la uwaaaaaaaaaa la.......kesian
dia....bukan apa tolak bakul pun ok gak tapi bila bagi mainan nih mesti dia lagi teruja kan.......

 walk n ride

so, masa kuar meronggeng hr minggu hari tu masa tengah duk survey2 baju anas kat kids department kat the mall tuh ibu ternampak la benda alah tu.........tanpa pk duit ada ke tak dalam purse terus rembat jer.....alang2 dah ada 10% discount kan.......

with love,

Tumbuh gigi

Alhamdulillah....gigi anas dah tumbuh dah......ibu sangat teruja sampai mimpi2 tau bila la gigi anas nak tumbuh nih......bukan apa takut gak sebab ada kes yg baby tak tumbuh2 gigi sebab takder akar gigi.....lg pun kesian dia bila nak makan biskut ke apa ker geget2 tak boleh kan.......bila dah tumbuh gigi nih lega la ibu........

tu pun baru tumbuh satu kat bawah......sebab tu lah hr tuh dia demam rupanya esok tuh ibu tengok dah ada gigi dah......huhuhuhuhu.......syabas anakku.....

ni gambar cubaan ibu yg tak berjaya nak ambik gambar gigi dia.......marah ooooo dia......dia skang dah eksyen dah kalu org nak ambik gambar dia wat bodo jer lansung dah tak pandang camera...panggil la nak tercabut anak tekak tak layan lansung.........

:: nampak tak yg tempat nampak putih tuh, situ lah gigi tumbuh belah kanan ::

 :: tercover ngan lidah pulak ::

 :: rimas la buuuuuuuuu ::

with love,

Babysitter

mama su, babysitter anas kan jadi pindah pulak........jadi tak jadi...jadi tak jadi...last2 jadi pulak......so ibu dah dapat baby sitter baru anas.....mama sarah namanya....tapi hati ibu duk risau ni anas mesti melalak tak hengat nnt sebab ya la dia kan memang ada penyakit "Stranger anxiety"so, ibu cam risau la.......melalak tu memang confirm la..tapi nak buat macamana kan dah terpaksa.......

Stranger anxiety is manifested by crying when an unfamiliar person approaches. It is normal starting at about 8 to 9 mo and usually abates by age 2 yr. Stranger anxiety is linked with the infant's developmental task of distinguishing the familiar from the unfamiliar. Both the duration and intensity of the anxiety vary greatly among children.

ok, cakap pasal baby sitter ni memang tak boleh nak lari mesti ibu2 risau jer kan.....ya la nak tinggalkan anak ngan org yg dia tak kenal....just imagine kita la kan org dewasa pun rasa cuak jugak kalu ditinggalkan seharian ngan org yg kita tak kenal.......tapi dah kata takder pilihan kan .........bersabar jer la

kat sini ibu nak share sikit info la pasal baby sitter ni......so saper2 yg hantar anak/tinggalkan anak ngan baby sitter tuh sila tengok list kat bawah ni......ada tak tanda2 yg menunjukkan ada yg tak kena ngan baby sitter tu....

It's not always easy to know whether your child's caregiver is doing the job she's supposed to. To find out, you may have to do some sleuthing. Some parents who suspect something may be amiss rent nanny surveillance equipment. But it's often possible to tell whether something's wrong without going to that extreme.

You may have trouble on your hands if:

• Your toddler isn't happy to see the nanny or babysitter and has become anxious and withdrawn. A regular caregiver can never replace Mom or Dad, but a child needs to trust and love his nanny or babysitter completely. Perhaps your toddler and caregiver haven't bonded, or the nanny or babysitter just isn't providing the kind of warmth and comfort your child needs. As in every human relationship, having the right chemistry is important. (If you suspect something more serious is wrong, educate yourself about the signs of child abuse.)

• Your nanny or babysitter seems secretive about the daily routine. How your toddler and his caregiver spend their time shouldn't be a secret . When you come home, you're probably eager to hear about your child and what happened while you were apart. If your caregiver isn't forthcoming about it, either she's not good at communicating with you or she has something to hide. Even a caregiver whose English is limited should be able to convey the ups and downs of your toddler's day, and will understand why you want to know.

• Your child has been in one too many easily avoidable accidents. A nanny must keep her eye on your child, and know what he's doing at all times to prevent injury. She may be leaving your child unattended as he sleeps or plays.

• You notice your requests aren't followed. Both of you are working together to care for your child, so a caregiver shouldn't act as if she knows more about him and childrearing than you do. "I didn't like my babies to be fed on schedule and I told my nanny so," says Kirsi Tikka, a professor from Port Washington, New York. "But she insisted on it." Eventually, Tikka and that particular nanny parted ways.

• She seems critical of they way you're raising your child. Again, you're supposed to be a team. And you should welcome constructive suggestions from your child's caregiver — especially if she spends a lot of time with your ever-changing toddler. But if you get the sense that the two of you just aren't on the same page when it comes to basics like food, sleep, and safety, the relationship might not work out in the long run.

• Your nanny or babysitter often shows up late. An undependable caregiver will leave you in a lurch time and time again. Find someone who you know is committed to the job and considerate of your needs. Tardiness and unexplained absences may mean she's unreliable in other ways as well.

• Your toddler often looks unkempt and dirty. If your little one's caregiver can't take care of the basics, it may be a sign that she's not on the ball when it comes to meeting your child's needs.

• Her stories don't add up. Never tolerate someone who steals, lies, or deceives you in any way. You have to be able to trust your caregiver for the relationship to work.

sumber

with love,

anas n ibu n papa

with love,

Ke pasar tani mega kat shah alam together gether ngan wan & atuk pulak.....

2 minggu lepas masa bawak anas gi homeopathy tuh kan singgah kat pasar tani...ibu cam tak puas la sebab nak cepat so, ibu dah bagitau papa nnt papa balik ibu nak datang lagi, nak mai awal sikit biar boelh tawaf satu pasar tani nih......

so, hari ahad tuh....ingat nak pegi la....tapi duit dah takder ni sebab dah habis kat anas masa meronggeng
tu kan....pastu papa cakap kalu nak jln2 sajer takper tak pakai duit kan....tapi papa yg dah kenal pangai ibu nih kan....mana boleh jalan sajer2 jer kan...mau bengkak jer hati nih.......hehehe

:: ingat  nak suruh anas pakain topi atuk nih masa kat pasar tani

tapi hampeh dia taknak ::

kebetulan wan ngan atuk pun nak pegi so.......pegi satu keter gak...siap2 terus berdesup pegi pasar tani kat shah alam.......wei penat meronggeng belum hilang lagi nih....tapi kuar dah agak lewat la.....dah panas giler so ibu pun camn dah takder mood la nak membeli.....kesian kat anas jugak panas2 ni kang demam pulak....so tak lama......cario gerai yg jual tudung yg ibu beli hr tuh pun tak jumpa.....last2 beli mop jer.....mop yg canggih la sikit....

:: rileks jer papa carry dia, cuaca memang pana smencucuk la ::

pastu singgah tesco nak beli susu anas ngan barang2 sikit......terus balik rumah....wan ada jemputan kenduri....tukar keter terus berdesup pegi rumah toksu nura kat sri kembangan pulak...dah berbulan tak pegi sana......lepak2 pas maghrib pas makan nasi baru balik......

 :: suka sangat duk lam troli tuh ::

 :: dah besar dah bucuk ibu ni ::

sampai rumah ibu ngan anas terus pengsan dah tak sedar apa dah penat sangat2....kesian papa yg kemas brg2 yg beli kat tesco tu semua....

:: anas nak pecah rekod main cubicle ni (apa nama sebanar natang nih ek, dha lupa)  ::

with love,

Merongeng.....

kalu papa balik memang tak lekat kat rumah.......plan hr sabtu tuh nak kuar awal2 la, papa nak pi shopping baju papa ngan baju anas yg nak pakai masa kenduri maklong nanti........pastu singgah rumah wan dulu sebab ibu nak hantar baju ibu kat tukang jahit depan rumah wan tu......

tengok2 diorang pun nak gi kl....nak gi menjemput sedara mara kat kl nung.....alang2 tu ikut sekali lah.boleh singgah sogo ker mana ke kan..skang ni kan masih tengah sale CNY kan......so jangan lepaskan peluang ya..hehehe

ibu, papa, anas , wan ngan maklong .......pegi satu keter jer.....dh habis menjemput dah habis sesat barat dah.....bayangkan alamat takder yg tahu landmark tangki air ngan jusco...baper banyak tangki air ada kat kl nung wan......hahaha tapi nasib baik last2 jumpa gak la.....takpe ni kira jalan2 bawak anas round kl la.....sib baik anas tak mengamuk....

pastu jumpa ayah long.....nak gi makan pulak...anas maklong kidnap naik ngan ayah long....so ibu, papa ngan wan satu keter.......nak makan kat kg baru....cari parking takder....last2 sampai ke the mall....naik kat kids department terus ...pilih2...bayar...pastu ibu ternampak playskool walk n ride so terus ambik...pastu ayah long ngan maklong pun shopping baju anas gak......wah anas asyik kamu jer yg dapat nih......

~ kasut baby kiko and sepasang baju by poney dari ayah long ngan maklong ~

timer kasih ayah long & maklong........ibu pun beli tak semahal macam ayah long beli tau........timer kasih gak kat papa yg tukang bayar hehehehe.....so anas dapat dua pasang baju, sepasang kasut dan satu playskool walk n ride....

 

  ~ baju by kiko n playskool walk n ride ibu n papa yg belikan ~

shopping pun cepat2 sebab the mall dah nak tutup dah........kitorang customer terakhir kut.......pastu baru gi makan kat kg baru..makan kat suraya seafood.....best jugak...masakan ala2 siam......

sampai rumah dah kul 1 pagi cam tuh.......teus tidur rumah wan jer....dah penat sangat dah.....

 

 :: anas n maklong ::

 :: ni kat dalam the mall ::

ps: ni jer gambar yg ada......dah penat cam terlupa nak ambik gambar la.....

with love,