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boleh tajuk camtuh???

 

anas kan sekarang dah tak pergi rumah babysitter
hari2 dia nak pergi rumah wan...rumah wan...rumah wan...
dan kadang2 nak pergi rumah mami /maklong dia...
tapi tak hantar lah...kan mami tak pasal2 bertukar jadi hantu kak limah nak layan dua orang budak kecik kan hehehehehe

kenapa dia tak nak pergi rumah babysitter??????
hanya dia jer yang tahu kenapa.....

dia ni kalu ibu takde dia sangat behave...
wan cakap pagi2 dia akan duduk atas kesrusi kecik nih...
kalu tak pun dalam kereta...
dia akan duduk situ sampailah wan habis berniaga....
ibu ngan papa hantar dia dalam kul 7.45 gitu dan dalam kul 8.30 ke pukul 9.00 wan dah habis berniaga dah...
kejap je pun...dia sukalah....
 

lagipun rumah wan kan rumah bawah
so dia boleh la main2 kat luar depan laman tuh...
pastu pulak kadang2 tu wan bawak dia pergi jalan2 ke pergi giant ke...tesco ke...
tu yang dia suka tuh....

sayang bucuk ibu...
jangan noti2 ya duk ngan wan ya...nnt balik ibu ambik anak ya....

with love,

Abang dan Kakak Anas

aik anas ada abang nga kakak???

dorang ni anak2 babysitter anas...yg jenis memang suka melayan budak2...anas ni dah macam adik beradik dorang dah...kadang2 dorang datang rumah main ngan anas...bukan main suka lagi anas tuh...dia cukup suka kalu ada orang datang rumah...kelam kabut lah dia...excited...maklumlah hari2 duk ngadap muka ibu...lgpun tak kuasalah ibunak ngadap dia main mainan tuh...kejap2 boleh la...

tu tak tahu lah abang awi duk main apa ngan dia tuh...ibu tak campur dorang...ibu biarkan dorang main2...ibu layan tv...hahaha lega sikit ada orang duk lmelayan dia...kalu tak kejap2 dia tarik tangan ibu ajak layan dia main...kalu ada orang dia tak kacau ibu dah

rumah pun dah ala2 tongkang pecah dah....biarkan aje...nnt dah puas main sila kemas balik....yg seluar biru ni abg shahir...anas paling suka ngan dia sebab dia pandai main ngan budak...baik budaknya...anak2 babysitter ni semua sopan dan hormatlah orang tua....

tu abg awi duk baiki lori anas...kepala dah tertanggal...budak2 memang camni mainya kejap jer...hari beli tu kepala dah tercabut dah dari badan...tapi lori tuh mainan kesayangan anas tuh...

ni anak mama sarah yang bongsu...kak wanie..dia la yg sibuk nak adik..hari2 suruh mak dia beranak..tu yang mama sarah decide nak jaga budak tuh...Alhamdulillah setakat nih...ibu puas hatilah dia jaga...sikit2 tak berkenan tu kita tolak tepi lah sebab orang jaga bukan sama dengan kita jaga 100%...as long anas happy ibu dah syukur dah...so far takde masalah..dia pun jenis tak berkira...

so, babysitter korang macamana??? ok ke ko?

with love,

Alhamdulillah..........lega hati ibu

benar.......setiap yg berlaku ada hikmah yg tersembunyi........

anas skarang minggu kedua ngan babysitter baru dia.......mama su, babysitter anas yg lama tu kan dah pindah dah

so, masa mula2 mama su ckp nak pindah tuh.....ibu dah pening dah mana nak cari org jaga anas nih.....dah lah anas ni peel dia memang tak nak ngan org.....pulak tu kesian la ngan dia sebab nak kena duduk ngan org yg dia tak kenal..pastu kita pun tak tahu org yg nak jaga anak kita tu macamana kan........kena yg jenis baran ker naya jer anas jd mangsa lak kan........dah lah hari2 kuar kat paper budak mati kena dera........eeeee mintak jauh la.........

hari2 nih ibu duk pening2 pikir pasal nih.......sedih pun ada, macam2 la ibu rasa........tapi ibu memang takder pilihan, ibu kena kerja jugak......

pastu bila sembang ngan kawan2 ibu ibu bgtau la problem nih......pastu ada sorang kawan ibu tu rekemenkan kawan dia...nama kak sarah......dia memang dah lama kenal ngan kak sarah nih........lso ibu pun suruh la dia tanyakan....Alhamdulillah..dia nak jaga anas........

so start 1hb March hr tu anas dah duk ngan baby sitter baru.......ibu risau dan berdebar2 la takut jer anas menangis satu hari tak berenti2 camner?tapi tak ya........sangkaan ibu salah......nampaknya anas happy duk ngan mama sarah ni.......skarang nih hantar pagi2 siap hulur tangan lagi kat mama sarah......lansung tak nangis.......so ibu lega la kat ofis......

kalu tinggalkan dia tengah nangis rasa sedih sangat..........

syaza (sepupu haikal), anas (busyuk ibu) and haikal (anak mama su)

ni gambar masa hari mama su pindah rumah, tengok rumah dia dah clear dah brg2 semua dah masuk lori dah time nih, ibu saja ambik gambar nak wat kenang-kenangan anas

mintak2 kekal lah anas ngan mama sarah nih.....

with love,

Babysitter

mama su, babysitter anas kan jadi pindah pulak........jadi tak jadi...jadi tak jadi...last2 jadi pulak......so ibu dah dapat baby sitter baru anas.....mama sarah namanya....tapi hati ibu duk risau ni anas mesti melalak tak hengat nnt sebab ya la dia kan memang ada penyakit "Stranger anxiety"so, ibu cam risau la.......melalak tu memang confirm la..tapi nak buat macamana kan dah terpaksa.......

Stranger anxiety is manifested by crying when an unfamiliar person approaches. It is normal starting at about 8 to 9 mo and usually abates by age 2 yr. Stranger anxiety is linked with the infant's developmental task of distinguishing the familiar from the unfamiliar. Both the duration and intensity of the anxiety vary greatly among children.

ok, cakap pasal baby sitter ni memang tak boleh nak lari mesti ibu2 risau jer kan.....ya la nak tinggalkan anak ngan org yg dia tak kenal....just imagine kita la kan org dewasa pun rasa cuak jugak kalu ditinggalkan seharian ngan org yg kita tak kenal.......tapi dah kata takder pilihan kan .........bersabar jer la

kat sini ibu nak share sikit info la pasal baby sitter ni......so saper2 yg hantar anak/tinggalkan anak ngan baby sitter tuh sila tengok list kat bawah ni......ada tak tanda2 yg menunjukkan ada yg tak kena ngan baby sitter tu....

It's not always easy to know whether your child's caregiver is doing the job she's supposed to. To find out, you may have to do some sleuthing. Some parents who suspect something may be amiss rent nanny surveillance equipment. But it's often possible to tell whether something's wrong without going to that extreme.

You may have trouble on your hands if:

• Your toddler isn't happy to see the nanny or babysitter and has become anxious and withdrawn. A regular caregiver can never replace Mom or Dad, but a child needs to trust and love his nanny or babysitter completely. Perhaps your toddler and caregiver haven't bonded, or the nanny or babysitter just isn't providing the kind of warmth and comfort your child needs. As in every human relationship, having the right chemistry is important. (If you suspect something more serious is wrong, educate yourself about the signs of child abuse.)

• Your nanny or babysitter seems secretive about the daily routine. How your toddler and his caregiver spend their time shouldn't be a secret . When you come home, you're probably eager to hear about your child and what happened while you were apart. If your caregiver isn't forthcoming about it, either she's not good at communicating with you or she has something to hide. Even a caregiver whose English is limited should be able to convey the ups and downs of your toddler's day, and will understand why you want to know.

• Your child has been in one too many easily avoidable accidents. A nanny must keep her eye on your child, and know what he's doing at all times to prevent injury. She may be leaving your child unattended as he sleeps or plays.

• You notice your requests aren't followed. Both of you are working together to care for your child, so a caregiver shouldn't act as if she knows more about him and childrearing than you do. "I didn't like my babies to be fed on schedule and I told my nanny so," says Kirsi Tikka, a professor from Port Washington, New York. "But she insisted on it." Eventually, Tikka and that particular nanny parted ways.

• She seems critical of they way you're raising your child. Again, you're supposed to be a team. And you should welcome constructive suggestions from your child's caregiver — especially if she spends a lot of time with your ever-changing toddler. But if you get the sense that the two of you just aren't on the same page when it comes to basics like food, sleep, and safety, the relationship might not work out in the long run.

• Your nanny or babysitter often shows up late. An undependable caregiver will leave you in a lurch time and time again. Find someone who you know is committed to the job and considerate of your needs. Tardiness and unexplained absences may mean she's unreliable in other ways as well.

• Your toddler often looks unkempt and dirty. If your little one's caregiver can't take care of the basics, it may be a sign that she's not on the ball when it comes to meeting your child's needs.

• Her stories don't add up. Never tolerate someone who steals, lies, or deceives you in any way. You have to be able to trust your caregiver for the relationship to work.

sumber

with love,